Become unhinged, super transparent and authentic with your energy!
- Natasha Andrews
- Mar 6
- 4 min read
Ever met someone who you thought was a bit mean or blunt, but in all actuality they were just great with their boundaries? Or maybe you've mistaken someone, or someone mistaken you for being aloof, nonchalant or having 0 fucks to give?

That is a person or energy that does not mind being unliked, or seen as distant to protect themselves or their peace. Often times we look at these people or energies as ass holes, when, if you take a deeper look, they are simply behaving in ways you fear to.
Let me explain...
For example, I have the propensity to distance myself from people, places and things when I am going through something, ascending in the spiritual realms, leveling up personally or when I am needing to dissect, embody and/or transmute difficult chapters within my journey. I navigate a lot of life alone because I need to hear my own conscious voice and not that of others. I need a direct channel for clear communication from the ethers and sometimes people can distract me from that.
And because of this, I've been labeled as "I cut people off", or "you stay distancing yourself", and even "you stopped reaching out". When honestly, I just don't explain myself about a given experience or hurdle I'm needing to jump, ALONE! I'm not a needy person, I'm not a person who needs an entourage or hella friends' advice to get through life, so me entering solitude or being in hermit mode is never about the other party; it's always about ME.
My responses are sometimes seen as rude or disrespectful too...
I'm seriously just at an age now that I'm going to speak my mind and folk are not use to that. Especially to the level I speak mine! If I say something that I felt at the time I stated it and you make it about you or your more focused on how it made you feel rather than what my issue was in what was being said, then I digress... And no I'm not apologizing because I meant it.
Does this make me a bitch?
Well first you should ask, what is a bitch? And what exactly made being a bitch such a "bad" thing? And for some the answer would be why yes! And for others it'll be fuck no, your just being honest.

I use to be afraid to really speak how I feel. Afraid to speak my truth. And I also noticed this fear was also around a period of my life, where I was holding on to ideologies and fairytales that were told and sold to me. So, as I deprogram and reprogram a lot about myself, and life, and the power of authenticity, I am eager to speak my mind more fluently.
Not to mention having a career in sales and marketing and studying different ways to effective communicate more clearly and with clarity; I don't mind opening up. It's so good for growth and your mental and emotional health..
Becoming unhinged isn't necessarily about being a menace to society with your blunt behavior; but more so comfortable in being real!
Comfortable to the point where folks don't have to like you but they respect you because your honest.
One of the highest vibrations in the world is one of authenticity. And in my journey of self mastery, I am embodying this vibration to it's fullest extent. I know that peeling back layers and shedding dead weight and transforming into the being, the woman I'm supposed to be, being authentic is at the core.
2025 is the year of 9! An ending for new beginnings. Completing cycles, completing lessons, recognizing the blessings and departing or separating from what is truly no longer in alignment with who I am, NOW!
The life that I am creating, that you are creating takes guts, it takes maniacal processes to go in the opposite direction of the masses. To learn to BE YOU when everyone else is being every one else.
So to sum this entire thing up, transparency is what the world needs from you and from me. You are being called to walk in your purpose unapologetically. You are being presented with an opportunity to incorporate all parts of you. the light, the dark, that make you YOU!

Speak up, protect your peace, protect your creativity, protect your energy, protect the work you've put in to even be who you are at this stage. Everyone doesn't deserve your story, your truth; however EVERYONE deserved when encountering you, the REAL YOU!
I hope this message sits in the hearts, minds and souls of those who need it most. Baby girl it's time to not hold your peace. You grow when you emit your frequency with love... It's ok to use your voice, it's perfectly fine to say no or say yes, or say that's for me, or this no longer is of value to me, or whatever you feel like expressing. Do not hold it in, let it out.
Grow. I love you, Natasha... Your local skincare bae :)
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